OfflineDiscipline!!! and Commitment!!!
Some people are just naturally good at some things. The are gifted from birth with special skills. They find that special skill early in life because it falls in front of them. I have good news for all of you also...you are also born with the seeds of greatness inside of you, you just have to find what it is. I can promise you you won't find them sitting on the couch in front of the TV. You will find them by putting yourself out there, taking chances to fail. I can honestly say I wasn't born good at sports, school work, computer programming or guitar hero (I hate that game). God decided to bless me with the ability to get my face kicked in, knocked down, beat up, and still WANT to get back up and keep going. I literally HATE to lose. Winning is great but I HATE losing. I HATE losing!!!
What it boils down to is two things. If you put in the COMMITMENT that you are going to succeed at being a real estate investor no matter what, and I mean no matter what happens, and you march forward everyday knowing that success is just "one more day away" you will succeed. Then once you make that your commitment you put in the DISCIPLINE to carve out time in your schedule EVERY DAY to do a little bit whether it be reading, looking at properties, putting in offers, talking to other investors, listening to audio's, talking to sellers, reading some more then after about 6 months something magical happens, you just programmed your brain to be a real estate investor and deals start to fall into your lap because you can "SEE" them. You understand creative financing and how too see a good way to finance a no money down deal. It just happens. Sadly, most will give up before the magical process happens. It breaks my heart to see people that tell me "CBR, I am going to be real estate investor and I am going to get financially free" I always ask them "no matter what?" and they say "yep, and I am going to blow away the number of deals you have done!" I tell them that is possible. I make them promise me that they will never give up and we write it down on a piece of paper. Is success hard to achieve? Yeah, it's real hard. Some people tell me "CBR, I don't want to buy as many properties as you, but what does the average investor achieve" to that I say "NOTHING! The average investor doesn't make it" You guys are not average. Make a commitment and be disciplined every day to make it happen. Don't give up, no matter what. You go out and be the guy that everybody looks upto. Remember it isn't what happens to you that matters. It is how you think about what happens to you that matters.
You've got to find your obstacles and call them out! Unsheath the sword, and do battle with whatever it is that holds you back!
you sure you don't have a PHD in psyhcology? SULLY.
YOUR HERO, SULLY
well said.
It is hard! Nothing worth anything is easy.
Don't Wish the Past, Create the Future! - DH
Oh man, you don't like Guitar Hero! My son has it and i love to jam to Mississippi Queen. IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. LOL you're kool.
cindy REI
If that doesn't get people motivated I'll be floored! CBR, you should be a motivational coach, that was awesome! I give you a standing ovation on that one!! I don't like guitar hero as much as rock band where EVERYONE can play an instrument and sing.... HA! But I'm a musician, so that may contribute to me liking it too!
Elena
Psalms 118:23 "This is the LORD's doing; it is marvelous in our eyes."
I am really inspired by it and it makes me even more determined to show hubby and the RE agent who told me yesterday that there is no quick money in REI but I should become one of his RE agents instead. He said that this area is not worth trying to invest in. I was so slammed by his views since he is the top RE agent in our county. He laughed at me even thinking about investing when I have no money or credit.
I want to prove him wrong SOOOOOO MUCH!
I am so close to the point of being able to make this work and I am not giving up even though I am still reeling from his remarks.
Thanks for the inspirational post. Do you think that there are areas in the country where REI is a waste of time? Anyone?
Deb
Real Estate is NEVER a waste of time, because people ALWAYS need a home whether it's buying or renting in ANY area and someone is making money from them, so why not you? Remember that honey, and don't let those ignorant remarks ring true in your head. That guy is probably top agent in the county because he's sheisty, have you considered that? He obviously has NO clue what he's talking about. Real Estate has made me more money than ANY job or gig or both combined together, than I've ever had and with very little effort and time!
Keep the faith honey,
Elena ;D
Psalms 118:23 "This is the LORD's doing; it is marvelous in our eyes."
I know your right. It just rocked me so much. This guy is a close friend of the states RE commissioner so I guess he seemed to carry some weight in his opinions. I am so sorry I even spoke with him but I will show him very, very soon. I just have to baby! There is no turning back now.
Deb
Well he defintely could use a lesson on diplomacy!! Sometimes people get into their 'top' positions by who they know or even greasing their hand, if you know what I mean. I for one HATE those types of politics, I'd rather get into a position because of my integrity, qualifications and performance. Not by who I know or who's booty I kissed... HA! I've always held myself to those standards and always will. I'll leave the brown nosing to those who need to get ahead that way. Just remember, he puts his pants on one leg at a time, he's not above you because of who he is. Your bloodline is much greater, as you are a child of the most high God!
Elena ;D
Psalms 118:23 "This is the LORD's doing; it is marvelous in our eyes."
Thanks CBR I just got on the pc yours was the first post what a wake up call that was great stuff.I am committed to suscess i have hard time with follow up.I will get control of it and do what i need to do just got to do it.Thanks for all of your input and as for Deb that agent knows what you are about to do to him with the propertys in his area and he wants you to be under him so you can make money for him.So go kick his butt and show him what you can do.to all have a great day Mr.Bill
Mr.Bill
what your doing, posting on the site, taking notes, studying, contributing, and keep practicing too, make sure you read over @ least some of your notes every night @ least devote 30 minutes or more to studying, TRUST ME, it will pay off, SULLY.
YOUR HERO, SULLY
Now your talking i have rock band too. I like it over all as well, because one can play the guitar and one can drumb. Anyway congrats on all that you've achieved CBR
cindy REI
I don't have any of these things because I'd be so busy playing them I'd never leave the house or get anything done, HA! My daughter has them for her Wii, her and her new hubby are fanatics at it. Having played professionally in bands for over 27 years is much better than pretending to do it, but it's so fun to watch everyone try to sing or play a foreign instrument, I'm just upset there is no keyboard part... LOL!
Elena ;D
Psalms 118:23 "This is the LORD's doing; it is marvelous in our eyes."
Sully, yes I do have a PhD. I got my PhD from UHK.
Public High school Diploma (PhD) from the University of Hard Knocks (UHK). Now I am going back to school to get my MBA (Major Bank Account)
You've got to find your obstacles and call them out! Unsheath the sword, and do battle with whatever it is that holds you back!
OH YEA I LOVE IT! PREACH ON PREACHER MAN!
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You've got to find your obstacles and call them out! Unsheath the sword, and do battle with whatever it is that holds you back!
Your existential eccentric thinking just boggles the minds...lol...hahaha
yeah I got my PhD from UHK now I am so happy to have a fellow alumni here with me.
Anita
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Nice!
Public High school Diploma (PhD) from the University of Hard Knocks (UHK). Now I am going back to school to get my MBA (Major Bank Account)
Don't Wish the Past, Create the Future! - DH
That is awesome. I love the MBA.
CBR, that was very motivational and inspiriing. Great Stuff!!
i'm just trying to holla @ my boy, don't hate the player hate the game, SULLY.
YOUR HERO, SULLY
NEVER give up and you WILL succeed!
Thanks for reminding us, CBR. (Thought the newbies, and all of us, would be inspired by reading this thread again, especially a friend that PMed me tonight)
God bless,
Rina
"Obstacles can slow you down, but they can only stop you with your permission." Dean Graziosi (BARM pg 101)
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11
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WOW if that was motivational PHD from UHK and to a MBA. I definitely feel at home.
I LOVE this site! havent been on in a while since I was working on my first flip! But done deal! What a feeling! And I too, have my degree from the UHK! Classroom earth is a great teacher and since discovering Dean and this site I cant wait to get up each day and live it to the MAX!!!! I'm so excited for my future its a dream come true! I added a goal to my list....When I reach the millionaire club I'm gonna fly us all somewhere to meet and celebrate together!
Best of the best of everything to everyone here!
Laura
www.adeptpropertiesllc.com
my story:
http://www.deangraziosi.com/node/10404
Public High school Diploma (PhD) from the University of Hard Knocks (UHK). Now I am going back to school to get my MBA (Major Bank Account)
Hahaha I like this one! Just like those Honorary Dollars that keep rollin' in once I get going and don't stop.
"I will NOT BE BROKE! ANYMORE!"
In the name of Allah, the Beneficent,
the Merciful.
22.He is Allah besides Whom there is no God: The Knower of the unseen and the seen; He is the Beneficent, the Merciful.
23. He is Allah besides Whom there is no God: the King, the Holy, the Author of Peace,the Granter of Security, Guardian over all, the Mighty, the Supreme, the Possessor of greatness. Glory be to Allah from that which they set up (with Him)!
24. He is Allah: the Creator, the Maker, the Fashioner: His are the most beautiful names. Whatever is in the heavens and the earth declares His glory: and He is the Mighty, the Wise.
Loved your post CBR!!
This is an inspiring and a motivational post. Everyone has a day where everything can go wrong and you wonder why am I doing this? The "Discipline!!! and Commitment!!!" wil lead to your drive and focus to financial freedom. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Believe and Achieve!
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for minimum or average! Push it beyond the limits!
"I will NOT BE BROKE! ANYMORE!"
In the name of Allah, the Beneficent,
the Merciful.
22.He is Allah besides Whom there is no God: The Knower of the unseen and the seen; He is the Beneficent, the Merciful.
23. He is Allah besides Whom there is no God: the King, the Holy, the Author of Peace,the Granter of Security, Guardian over all, the Mighty, the Supreme, the Possessor of greatness. Glory be to Allah from that which they set up (with Him)!
24. He is Allah: the Creator, the Maker, the Fashioner: His are the most beautiful names. Whatever is in the heavens and the earth declares His glory: and He is the Mighty, the Wise.
Guitar Hero is tough, but I find my vice is Rock Band (I hate that game, too)
I see that this post have responses from all the DG regulars here and since I am on this website now "DAILY", I am joining the ranks. Everything sounds so easy to apply, and as I read Each and Every Posting, it all clicks.
Yes, investing isn't easy, but when the money flows in, its a "whole lotta fun". I have been banging my head on the wall to get past the starting gates with Deans Strategies. I am currently fighting the battle of getting an attorney who will back me and close my assignment/IEE deals. Just when I think I have tried all I can try, someone puts up a post that gives me another option to try. I currently have 3 new options in the works. The lesson here is, when I get a NO, I keep looking until I find a yes.
CBR, Are you planning on being the motivational speaker at the next E.D.G.E event? I think your R.E.A.D.Y!!!
Jason
I've tried and failed, tried and failed, and again I try. Why don't I give up? I'm hard headed and I Will Succeed or Die Trying!
Never give up and you will be a winner sooner or later !!
Warm regards,
Paul T. La Moy
Hi CBR,
How true this is! I know that success is just a matter of going the distance. One step more! This is a hard lesson to learn. Being persistent. It's all about believing in your capabilities. Being able to recognize the obstacles for what they are. Road blockers. Learning how to go thru or around or under. What ever it takes. It took most of my life to understand the pattern that cycle that holds you back from succeeding. And most of it has been nothing more than myself! I have learned to go the distance no matter what it takes. You have to follow thru with faith! Thank you for your continued support and inspiration on this site..........Lubertha
"GOD IS STILL IN CHARGE, HE IS THE AIR WE BREATHE"
Hello All,
I am very new to this, just completed reading the book 5 days ago.
Started looking at properties in the neighborhood with no clue what I am going to do next, but I tell my self atleast you have taken some action.
I have two questions
1) Why do we need realtors and what purpose do they serve. If you make a deal wouldn't they want to have their 4% to 6% commission. I have now clue how it works.
2) There are many properties on sale in my area but all the sales signs are posted by Real Estate Agents like Weichert, ReMaxx etc. Should I be talking to the real estate agent to pruchase. What approach should I take in this case.
Thanks for your time.
--Bimal
Wish Everybody a great success in their Real Estate Business