Just can't seem to get back into it like I was...

Just can't seem to get back into it like I was...

I really need a good stiff kick in the arse to jumpstart me back up again people! Seems like I've gotten a bit too complacent during my down time and now it seems hard to get up out of this slump that I've gotten into.

HELP!!!!

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Bryant Slade


What's the matter?

Bryant,

What is the problem? Are you lacking motivation? Do you think it won't work? Have you done a deal yet? All I can say is just go back and watch all of deans video blogs and read his books. That's what always got me back on path.

I noticed you have alot of badges on this site so you must have been doing well at some point. YOULL GET IT BACK! Smiling

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Remember Why...

you got involved to begin with. For some it's to better their quality of life, or for their children, for retirement, for a family member, ect...

Remember the "REASON" you were motivated and I am sure that will pull you back on track.

Hope that helps...

JW

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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to continually be afraid you will make one."
Elbert Hubbard


Maybe

you really don't want to do it anymore

There is no reason not to be motivated.

This is not like you Max, whats going on???


I think I might need to....

re-evaluate and re-assess my motives that got me so ramped up in the first place. Yes, I do want to do this, but it just seems like I've become a bit lazy over the past few months and unmotivated. I think I'll go grab PFRERN and re-read it. I know that was a huge motivational boost for me in the beginning and may just be what I need to get me back going. I also need to start back watching the videos here as well as reading individual posts like I used to do. It's a fact, this site is a major morale booster....as long as one uses it like the tool that it is.

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Bryant Slade


Start taking action...

Just start taking action...

Take small steps at first if needed...

- drive through neighborhoods
- call for rent ads
- search craigslist
- go to open houses

Just start doing something to prime the pump!!!

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Motivated

Max

You don't know me but I need you, It's all the people like you that got me motivated. I used to check out this site for over a year before I even signed up, and posted anything.

Besides everything else,has DEAN ever let you down, are you going to let him down after he's out there buying up deals for you and others.

Get up off the couch shake the cobwebs out and get busy.

Jim Kendrick


Max has all the solutions

Max knows what the problem are, because he spilled it all out in his post. He mentioned: bit lazy, unmotivated, do not visit site and read the posts, too complacent, in a slump, not reading, unclear motives, not viewing the weekly blogs, keeps hanging up his tools. So far, Max has mentioned an array of negative attributes of why success is not coming his way. Now, that all this is on the table, the next step for him and him alone is to convert his negatives to positives and take action. Dean, his team and this site are showing him how to fish, all Max has to do is get into position and take action. The fish will not grab at the bate if the line is not in the water. I am no pro, but by hell, I am not going to roll over and die. I am a fighter and will continue fighting until I breathe my last breath. Max, remember we are here to support you, but you have to do the work. Now, when can we expect to hear you say, "I just made my first offer on a great deal" God Bless.

Sandra

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"You can never get to the top, if you are not willing to climb. Do not look at the difficulty of the climb, only anticipate the view from the top."
"Can't even walk without you holding my hand." (Song)
"Is anything too hard for the Lord ..." Genesis 19:14
"In all things, wait on the Lord."
"Think not of your own deliverance, but trust in God who will give in abundance."
"When you are down to nothing, God is up to something." Unknown
"Our lives begin to end, the day we become silent about those things that really matters." Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.


DON'T GIVE UP!

Because, you know that this is your key to FREEDOM! Like JW said, remember your reasons. Redo your goals. Revitalize that spark! Watch this video, it'll get that motivation rolling to GET BACK UP! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MslbhDZoniY (He's also a REI! Smiling) There are NO excuses! I watch this video AT LEAST TWICE a week.

And then watch this one, and realize your potential is a lot more than you realize! http://www.viddler.com/explore/khalidalzanki/videos/7/

DO affirmations Daily!

I say this several times a day!

It is CERTAIN we will SUCCEED! (only I say I when I say it to me)

Now, here's the kick in arse you wanted: :ASKICKS: Jawdropping!

Push yourself daily until it becomes a habit! 21 days... You CAN and you WILL do it!

See you at the top.


You all are absolutely....

....Right! I do know the answers to what's keeping me down, so now I've just got to start shaking myself off and and doing what I used to do, because I was getting really good at doing what I was doing, when I was doing it.....AND I LOVED it! Time to put the fishing rods down and the r/c planes and like cbrindamore said, start riding through neighborhoods again. And yes James, I have been a big influence on those coming here wanting to learn about investing and needing good advice from one of many excellent investors here(not that I was an excellent investor advisor, but I was a good one(lol). I'm starting to get a tingly feeling here people. Feeling that flame starting to glow bright again, just by coming here and laying out my hurdles and pitfalls to the DG family and getting that little ummph that I need to help get me back in there. Gonna be hell on wheels again! Thanks for the vid links Zion Prop....and the kick in the arse! I'll be there soon San, you just wait and see!

Thanks everyone!

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Bryant Slade


This Is Just Tough Love

Max, I remembered in the past, how you encouraged me, especially when I was experiencing many challenges. What I did was listen to your advice and many more on this site. I know they really cared about me sincerely. Do you know how I knew? They told me exactly what to do in order to arrive at the best outcome. Everything did not work the way I wanted, but I decided to turn another page in my life and move forward. Life with not always be a bed of roses, but if we do not take risks and venture out, we will have no idea of what is outside there for us to achieve. I have learned a lot from Elix, he kicks you in the arse, and then gives you a hand to get you up. I am making him, MY MAM OF THE MONTH. You could do this Max, but you have to stay on this site and gain as much knowledge as you can and take action. All the Best and God Bless.

Sandra

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"You can never get to the top, if you are not willing to climb. Do not look at the difficulty of the climb, only anticipate the view from the top."
"Can't even walk without you holding my hand." (Song)
"Is anything too hard for the Lord ..." Genesis 19:14
"In all things, wait on the Lord."
"Think not of your own deliverance, but trust in God who will give in abundance."
"When you are down to nothing, God is up to something." Unknown
"Our lives begin to end, the day we become silent about those things that really matters." Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.


Finally...

Offer out the door. Just one of many more to come since getting back to what I like doing best!

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Bryant Slade


GREAT!

Way to get back up and get going again!


Hi Bryant!

I know it can be tough getting back in the groove, but I'm sure you'll get it back!

I see you are in PA, what area? I'm in Lancaster County. I'm still looking for my first deal and thought bird-dogging might be a good first step, or wholesaling. I've started advertising on Craigslist, but nothing yet. Any tips you could send would be greatly appreciated, or maybe we can partner on something. There are some good REO deals in my area.

Take care!

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max

i just saw your recent post today and it was like looking in the mirror.
i'd just talked about my slackness in my journal not 2 weeks ago.
it's good to get a kick in the butt every once in awhile.
i found that i wasn't spending more than a few minutes at a time here and that was my biggest issue.i had been working a great deal and was just plain slack when i'd get home.
the fact of the matter is YOU can change your future,as can we all.
i'm glad to see you getting back in the pilots' seat.
i don't know about you, but i need to start treating my real estate as a business instead of something i'd like to do.
i want to pass off a statement that was given to me on my journal by carol stinson....you guys might of heard of her, she said " just do it scared ".
we have to do more than just gather info.
keep moving forward, rob

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keep moving forward, rob


Hi Nadine, Yes, I'm

Hi Nadine,

Yes, I'm currently residing in Mifflin county now, I was residing in Cumberland county
up until about 5 months ago. I've been focusing more on the Cumberland county areas, more or less, but may consider the Lancaster county area soon. As far as partnering up with anyone, well I've done that on the not so distant past and had nothing but bad experiences with it. I think I'll wait until I've gotten my first deal under my belt and my .LLC started before I partner up with anyone else. I will mull it over though.

Bryant

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Bryant Slade


You're exactly right in

You're exactly right in saying that. popping in here for a minute, or two at the most get's us about as much know how as trying to sip a drink through ones ear(not gonna happen). It's amazing how when we think that we're the only ones with these lax tendencies and no one else can relate, that we find out there are LOTS of us here like that from time to time and we all, more or less, share the same experiences even though we're hundreds of miles apart and living in different environments. Pretty funny how life works(lol).

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Bryant Slade


Hey Bryant!

How's it going? Have you gotten the lead out yet?

Let's hear what you are up to.

This was sent with love. Eye-wink

Karen

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