Just need my dg family

Dear Shawn,

I am so sorry that this is happening for you and Alisha. Sometimes, we do not know why things happen, but they do. Thank goodness you have one another and your other child for love and support. From reading your profile, I know you must be a strong person. You are a survivor! As difficult as it must be, you will come through this, too.

Prayers and positive vibes are being sent to Cincinnati tonight.

Hugs,
Karen

Shawn- As someone who has dealt with a number of ups and downs in my own life, I empathize with you in your time of need. As a Cincinnati native, my thoughts are with you and yours tonight.

I just wanted to tell you both "thanks for your messages."
it means the world to know some people really do care.
Thank you for your prayers and kind words, many blessings
to your families.

Shawn Downey

Reading about your loss reminded me of Dr. Charles Stanley's messages on Facebook.
'The Grace To Wait' Psalms 62:1-6 Confidence, assurance in God.
He is my stronghold! Trust Him and His wisdom. Be sensitive to His voice. My soul waits in silence for Him only.
Also, one message on Adversity was so helpful for me.
Pray you will read these devotionals on Facebook, he posts. So helpful and encourageing.
Pauline

Sorry to hear that. Just remember, God said "Cast your burdens up on me, come to me and I will give you rest". God have plans for you. Blessings to all. LA

One of the most important things to remember is to be supportive of each other to make it through the grieving process. You may each go through different phases with different intensities and it is important to understand this so you can be there for each other. This is from first hand experience.You may go through the "what if game" and the "blame game", however, the best place to end up is learning to live with it and knowing you have been tempered by fire and stayed the course of God’s plan. Be strong and keep moving forward.

my condolences. i'm sorry to hear this, but i hope you will continue to trust in God and move forward. we have these obstacles that happen in our lives for whatever reason, but it's how we handle them that shows what we are really made of. hang in there together and fulfill your dreams. you can do it!

Awe; Shawn I cry for you and your wife, really. Deeply saddened to hear of your loss, yet at the same time uplifted to read how your faith, love and positive thinking will carry you though these troubled times. Time does not heal all, as I’m sure you know, so your DG Family (whether we write or not) will say prayers for your tiny baby’s soul.

And wherever you roam, if you feel a little breeze behind your shoulder, it’s probably your tiny baby angel sitting on your shoulder, so don’t be alarmed. The angel is watching over you and your wife.

Meanwhile,
If you want to lie, lie in your beloved wife’s arms and comfort each other;
If you want to steal, steal more moments each day letting people around you know how much they mean to you; and
If you want to cheat, cheat the Devil, and chase him away!

My best,
Jenny

Thank you so much, your words of comfort mean a lot. I know with all the support and through God the pain will come to ease. The hardest part is knowing the name, knowing what we had planned and just the overall joy of bringing in a life. It would of and still will be my first. God has a different plan for us and we sit and wait to find the path he has chosen. Please know that i have read each and it's amazing the support. I hope that if anyone else has gone through this or is experiencing the same loss, know that the DG family are here. That Alisha and I are here for you.
The Facebook idea was a great idea i believe her and I will check that out. Also heard of here in Cincinnati has a station of KLove which i knew of but didnt know they offer a message of the day. Her and I plan on of course seeking Gods plan and to continue to grow with him, focus on our family now, and Real Estate!
Thank you to all that post, Alisha and I really appreciate the support!

Shawn

Sometimes we wonder why thing happens, but who are we to say what should or should not. God alone knows best. To him, it may not the right time. Your strength and fortitude are being tested. You have to rise to the challenge you face, so you will be prepared when tougher times come. These things only make us stronger. God is looking out for you and the family, just keep giving thanks. God Bless.

Sandra

I feel deeply for your loss, and send my prayers for your continued faith that everything happens as its meant to, whether we see it or not, and for you and your wife to continue to grow closer in your love and support of each through this time.