Where can I find the Conference Call about Instant Equity Exchanges?

Want to post my issues, but I keep deleting my long postings, because it sounds too dismal and after all, who wants to listen to that kind of stuff.

Got a message from DG today about "Stinking Thinking" and it describes my situation.

I have gotten depressed and incapable of getting things done, and if this is the case, how in the world, am I going to get organized again.

With all this B.S. going on, I still cannot fathom the idea of forgetting about being a wholesaler, working for myself and having the freedom and finances to do what I want, when I want, but going the way I am going. It is not going to happen. Years of interest, money and education wasted.

Need to sell, lots of items, and perhaps my personal home as a fixer/upper. Just cleaning and selling seems to be overwhelming. Finding another property with a Garage will probably be impossible in this area. If I move to an affordable area, I'll never find a job.

I need health insurance and expensive dental work.

And a whole lot more. Too make a long story short, I have some money and property, and I am still fairly healthy, but I have nobody around. My last parent died and left me her house. I don't know what to fix. Me, the house, the job situation or all, and how do I do it. I send out resumes and get nothing.

There are "Millions" of people who have it worse than me, so how does someone seem to lose all of his confidence and energy in himself, and seemingly incapable of getting things done? I have sought assistance, but it requires health insurance, which in turn requires me to file taxes, which I would have probably gotten a refund for anyways, but this was not done.

Sorry for the tone of this. I really like to see that people are utilizing methods to acquire a better lifestyle. If my thinking was different, I believe that I have most of the knowledge to do this.

I guess, the only real answer for me, would be to seek help who may be able to point out the reasons why I should think positively, and to to get the important things done. so I can move on with my life.

Congratulations to those who are putting in the effort to get somewhere with these ideas. Your postings are truly inspirational to me and others.

Can someone go from where I am, to happy and organized again?

What is holding me back or preventing me from entering this business?

Confidence in my first impression. I stink on the Telephone, and in this business, negotiating and being a clear, concise person who can gain a Seller's confidence is everything. I had previously setup a Toll free number a year or two ago, and I could never be comfortable with my Telephone Scripts. Which means hiring someone else to do them for me, but who will gain the confidence of any seller's that would call? Again, it is hire someone else.

I was never a good salesman to begin with. Now with one tooth missing, any confidence in my presentation has been affected. I don't feel like I look good and to be honest, I don't try to dress the part. Couple that with the fact that I am single, living alone and have nobody and I got a rather unpleasant situation that I am not too fond of.

My knowledge of the business is good. Just a couple of areas, I need to improve. I am terrified of the idea of approaching a Contractor and getting a firm estimate for a rehab. What if there were MAJOR delays. Could I handle it?

Seems to be confidence and people issues. Will I ever be able to do it?

The answer is yes, you can change and get organized. That said, maybe you need help? Ask yourself what is more important to you and start there. Fix one thing at a time first. As for dental care, why not see what you can get at a free clinic if need be. Fix what you can with the house to either stay in it or keep it, while you are trying to wholesale. Get out and meet other investors at a local rei club. Also get out and meet people so you won't be lonely. You can take small steps to get to all your goals simutaneously, but work on the thing and put your time and effort in it to see progress. Rome was not built in a day, steady progress, steady progress, and remember to take time to be grateful for what you do have and to reward yourself for your progress. Pm me if you like. Best wishes. Tammy

I guess, I know it is true that I can do it. Just seems to be getting harder. The power of positive thinking would be extremely helpful to me now. Wish their was a switch I could just turn on. LOL.

I am seriously starting to realize that it is time for a change, and if I don't do it, I might not like the results.

NOTE: I registered a business with the IRS in 2011. I got the Tax ID number, bought hosting for a website, paid for a foreclosure service, and paid for 2 years of the COA Network, Toll Free number, and I wasted money by not doing anything effective with it. My justification or excuse to myself was that I was depressed, because my Mother was in a Nursing Home, and I was visiting her round-the-clock and I had lost the desire to even turn on the computer at the end, just before her passing.

Since she has passed and it has not gotten easier. Well, that's it for the dismal postings.

To be frank, I don't know how to use the PM feature here. It seems you need to fill in some email address or something where the message is going. It is hard to believe sometimes that I used to have very advanced computer skills. I would fix everything myself. These days, just using my Laptop bothers my eyes something awful. My vision becomes blurry.

To change topics. Yeah, I noticed that you are promoting the Rehab Valuator. Do you use it? I downloaded the free version in 2011. I looked at it and tinkered with it. It looks OK. It has been a while since I used it, so I cannot remember any issues or complaints on it.

If my Mom is looking down on me now, she would be giving me a "Much needed lecture." God love her and my step father.