Carol Stinson's Journal... From Rags To Riches! Well almost...

Carol Stinson's Journal... From Rags To Riches! Well almost...

My husband and I saw Dean on television on 7/29/08 and decided to order his book and begin our venture to financial freedom.

We have a Home Remodeling Company in SJ and would like to incorporate Real Estate investing into our business.

Our goal is to be out of dept and financially free by the New year. We have 7 children and we now see the possibility of college in their future.

Dean's book has taught me how to dream again. It has given me the confidence that I need to face the future and change it one deal at a time.

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Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

http://realwholesaling.com FREE wholesaling tips and resources!

To your success,
Carol Stinson


A walk down memory lane.

I have just won the "Sweep Me Away Contest" and decided to take a walk down memory lane. As I look back at this journal I am humbled by how far I have actually come in 16 months. I wanted to share this with everyone that is new to REI and feeling a little discouraged. Look back through this journal and see that I was once where you are.

I am not "There" yet but I am on my way. I still have allot to learn about REI. I still have a many fears to conquer as well and much more studying and reading to do.

Please read through my past posts and this journal and you will watch as I conquer one thing at a time during my journey. I asked many questions on this forum and received allot of support and encouragement along the way.

Here are some of my old posts... Very entertaining!

I Must Be Crazy... http://www.deangraziosi.com/node/10771
Help Me on this deal please... http://www.deangraziosi.com/node/11286
300 year old house, how do I comp... http://www.deangraziosi.com/node/11542
Lock In, Assign and find an end buyer... WHAT?? http://www.deangraziosi.com/node/11831
Advise Needed... http://www.deangraziosi.com/node/10070
Finders Fee... http://www.deangraziosi.com/node/9103

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Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

http://realwholesaling.com FREE wholesaling tips and resources!

To your success,
Carol Stinson


incredible journey in a

incredible journey in a short time Carol. totally unbelievable.
Glad to have you as a neighbor Eye-wink
keep up the hard work you are very inspirational.
Richie.


Wild!

Hey Carol,

I was just reading your first post in this journal and thinking the same thing!

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"He who is mighty has done great things for me...He has...exalted those of humble estate; he has filled the hungry with good things..." Matt. 1:49-53


Carol!!! Congrats on winning!

I could not be more THRILLED for you!!! Love your journey. Love your posts. Thank you for sharing your story, and your success with us!

SOOOOOOO AWESOME!!!!

Cheers!
Louisa

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Current Journal on Dean's site: The Second Chapter: http://tinyurl.com/p986al3

First Journal on Dean's Site: From the Beginning: http://bit.ly/ocv10


What a ride!

My Rei journey is an incredible one indeed. I hope everyone can see that I too was once scared, confused and well...lost! I wish everyone success and look forward to reading your journal as well!

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Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

http://realwholesaling.com FREE wholesaling tips and resources!

To your success,
Carol Stinson


Amazing...

Congratulations on your win and thank you for being an inspiration.

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My daily journal link.
I'd love to hear from you. Smiling

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Very Cool

Carol. What a journey. What is so cool is I can pick out where I’m at in your journal.

I took your advise and have found a new RA. I think she just got her license in the mail this week. She’s a niece of one of my dearest friends.

You explained once that you use your Realtor/Partner to show/close your wholesale deals. My question is how do I explain this to this newbie agent and understand it myself. I don’t want her to get her license yanked before the ink dries..lol. Would you mind going into a little more detail about this please? You have my interest very peaked about this.

Again, congratulations on winning the contest. I hope you and your family enjoy your vacation.. You sooo deserve it.

Barbara

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I feel like Cinderella

As I go through the motions of winning the contest and speaking at the Gain The Edge Live Event I feel like Cinderella getting ready to go to the ball.

This past month has been an awesome experience. I have never felt so good about my life and so optimistic about my future. I know money is not everything and I never want to live my life being a person of success but rather a person of value. I have a strong desire to help others change their life as well. I hope that through my story others that are facing some of the difficulties that I faced will be encouraged to press forward and overcome obstacles.

I still have allot to learn in REI and a long road to travel before I can say that I have made it. I am so thankful that I have my husband of 20 years by my side rooting me on with each step. He has been my backbone in all of this.

I am excited to be traveling for the first time in my life. Going to meet Dean this weekend in Arizona with my husband and my baby. (Dean has even paid for them to come with me Smiling)I was having a hard time with the fact that I would have to leave my baby if I traveled to Arizona but Dean is taking me as a package deal...lol!

I hope to meet everyone soon. I am off to Arizona on Saturday to have dinner with Dean. I will tell you all about it when I get back.

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Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

http://realwholesaling.com FREE wholesaling tips and resources!

To your success,
Carol Stinson


That's Great!

That's great, Carol!

Hope you have a great trip! You're Garden State DGers will be waiting for you when you get back! Smiling

Vincent

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"He who is mighty has done great things for me...He has...exalted those of humble estate; he has filled the hungry with good things..." Matt. 1:49-53


Way to go Carol

Congratulations on your success, it couldn't have happened to a more deserving DG family member. You will do fine on your flight, and I know everyone will be looking forward to meeting you and hearing you speak about all of your successful deals. Keep up the good work and keep us posted on all the deals you do in the future.
Your friend Kolby


carol

hi carol,i've finally read your entire journal and all i can say is,wow i'm so happy for you and your family.not only have you been blessed with your rei career but it's blessed your husbands business as well.what can i say god is great.two questions i need help with if you've got a moment.
1.could you send me a copy of your letter for investors to put on cl
2.when is the edge event and how much does it cost?
i've already told my wife the first deal i have i'm setting money aside to go.
also how do i change my journal heading from tired of being scared to succeed to no longer scared to succeed?oops make that 3 questions lol.rob

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whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right.- Henry Ford
keep moving forward, rob


Congratulations Carol

I just read your entire journal and it's truly amazing. What an inspiration you are to us all. I am so happy that you won the contest. I am grateful about the insight you give in your journals on where you were and how you got started. You are so deserving of all that you have received. You worked hard and didn't quit. Thank you again and have fun with Dean in Arizona.

Blessings,
Cathy


Congrats Carol

You have come a long way. You never let your current situation stagnate you from moving forward. That's powerful! Congrats on your win. Thank you for all you do on this site to help newbies like myself.

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"You can always quit...so why start now?"

"Don't tell the world what you can do - SHOW IT"

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I never could have imagined!

My husband and I went to Arizona this weekend to have dinner with Dean. It was AWESOME!!!

I never would have imagined I would be spending a weekend in Arizona discussing real estate with Dean Graziosi. It is funny how life can take turns that you never think are possible.

I believe that success is a mindset not an ability. If we have the mindset than the abilities will come. It starts with believing you can do it and then taking actions that bring it to pass.

"What a man thinks in his heart so is he" ~~

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Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

http://realwholesaling.com FREE wholesaling tips and resources!

To your success,
Carol Stinson


Carol

Quote:
I believe that success is a mindset not an ability. If we have the mindset than the abilities will come. It starts with believing you can do it and then taking actions that bring it to pass.
Quote:

I love that statement and struck a cord with me. I needed to hear that tonight.

I read that you have 7 children and 1 with special needs and I think if I remember 2 are grandchildren that you are caring for. That is awesome. I used to work in the schools with children with special needs. They have a special place in my heart. I know it's not easy either being the parent. Just thank you for your words of wisdom.

It sounds like it was an amazing time with Dean. I just wish you the best when you speak at the Edge event. I just read that verse myself about
'what a man thinks in his heart so is he'

My posts are always long even when I try to make them short.

Blessings to you and your family,
Cathy


messed up

Sorry the second part wasn't supposed to be a quote. Oh well.


Truly Inspiring

Carol,

Congratulations on your success story! I've just read your entire journal and it is so inspiring! I feel like this is truly a real opportunity for "regular" people like myself and I can't wait to put some of this advice into action. Thank you for taking the time to share all you've learned.

Enjoy your trip!

Thank you again!

Denise

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Enjoyed your meeting interview

Hi Carol,

I enjoyed listening to your meeting with Dean. It is definately inspiring and it shows that you took the action necessary to get the deal done.

I just had a closing today on a wholesale deal and it was great.

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"If you cannot do great things, do small things in a great way.”
Napoleon Hill quote


Thankful!

I am so thankful for all of the wonderful posts that all of you have left. You know the true meaning of success is not in what you have but in what you are. I want to be the inspiration that someone needs to get started & the story that someone needs to hear to have hope. Because in being all those things to others I am successful!

I never thought that taking action in spite of my fear would not only help me to succeed but so many others as well. My heart rejoices each time I hear someone has taken steps after hearing or reading my story.Smiling

It has been a hard road. One that I would not want to travel down again. But to see that my journey has changed so many lives along with my own is truly a blessing.

"The biggest success secret ever:"Give More LIFE To More PEOPLE" ~ Stephen Pierce

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Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

http://realwholesaling.com FREE wholesaling tips and resources!

To your success,
Carol Stinson


Truly amazing

Carol,
I have just read through this entire journal. The obstacles that you have overcome are almost mind boggling for me. We all have challenges, but when I look at what you have accomplished in a short time, it makes me feel as though RE success is right around the corner for all of us. Your journey has really become a tutorial for me. Congratulations on what you have done!! I can tell that you are still well grounded in what is really important through it all.

God Bless
Erik


Thanks Eric

Thank you eric Smiling

When I read through my journal I cannot help but be utterly humbled by what the Lord has carried me through. It was truly 99% Him and 1% obedience.

My journey is not over yet but I know that the ride I am on now is going straight to the top!

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Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

http://realwholesaling.com FREE wholesaling tips and resources!

To your success,
Carol Stinson


Your Blog is Amazing

Visited your blog today. It was amazing. The amount of info is first rate and well organized.

It's on my list of sites to visit.


I would like to share something

When I post about my accomplishments here on DG I never want to seem as though I am boasting. In reality I post because I want others to see that this can be done. I want more than anything to encourage others to step out and believe in themselves. To know that this is achievable, that success is not just something that happens to a few but that it can happen to each and every person willing to take what they have learned to a new level. That new level being a place of uncommon ground, a place outside of your comfort zone. Because that is where success started for me. It started when I was willing to step out of my world and into the realm where I had to put what I had learned to work.

This was not an easy transition. I had to step out into a world where I had to call people I did not know, negotiate things that I was not mentally equipped to discuss and rely solely on the pages of a book for guidance. At that time however my present world seemed to be even more of an enemy that the one I was going head first into.

I am now so excited that I jumped into the unknown because now that I am here I am never going back. Every day here brings new hope, new accomplishments. In this world once your here there is no where to go but forward. Once you take that first step you begin to take another and another and each step you take brings you closer and closer to financial freedom.

In reality as I look back over the past year I am faced with the fact that I could have stayed where I was. Where would I be today if I had let my fear take control and not stepped out? Where would my children be if I had just said "I can't do this" and gave up before I even started. I cringe when I think about the fact that I could have chosen to doubt this whole REI thing and wrote it off as something that was unachievable to people like me.

I am not where I want to be in REI. Truthfully I have not even begun to build wealth or even save much of the money that I have made. I have paid off some bills and used some of the money to invest into my new REI career. A new computer, new fax and phone system was needed to help me be more effective in working from home. I no longer have to stress over how I am going to pay the bills every month and my refrigerator is constantly packed with food (that feels good Smiling ).

So in reality it is not the money that I have been making that has made me successful over the past year. It is the fact that I stepped out in spite of fear and made it happen.

~~~~ "Courage is not the lack of fear, it is acting in spite of it." Mark Twain ~~~

To your success Smiling

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Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

http://realwholesaling.com FREE wholesaling tips and resources!

To your success,
Carol Stinson


carol

you are such a blessing to read about.since i'm not that far from you maybe one day we'll meet.i know your husband is in construction and so am i.maybe we can help each other on many levels.good luck,god bless and keep posting.rob

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whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right.- Henry Ford
keep moving forward, rob


You are amazing!!!!!

Hi Carol!

I'm a newbie to this site and have read your entire journal....it's has been such an INSPIRATION!!! I lost pretty much everything and was nearly homeless, but thank God for my dad who helped me and let me stay at his house. I am sooo grateful to have found Dean and this website, everyone here is so helpful and giving with advice, knowledge and experience....it's just so wonderful and gives me hope for my future which I haven't had in a long time. Thank you for sharing all your posts along your journey, it's been amazing! I hope you realize how many lives you have touched and helped on this webiste...I thank you for being my inspiration. Congratulations on all your success and I look forward to reading about every one of them! Take care...

Robin Smiling


Carol,

Thank you so much for your posts. Your honesty and wilingness to share what you've experienced really does give encouragement. When you say you stepped into this new area in spite of your fear, that resonates with so many of us. I also have that fear and aprehension in moving forward but seeing that you did it any way helps me. I hope to read even more of your story as you progress.


Carol

Please you are such a gem to us all. Don't ever think that sharing a deal is boasting. You are very humble. I can see that. YOu are an inspiration to us all. Your most recent post rings so true with me. I can't help but tear up when I read. I'm not homeless but as most people it's probably only 1 paycheck away. It's great to know that just stepping out of my comfort zone and taking action is all it takes. I have many on here that tell me that it's only yourself that truly stops you from overcoming the F_ _ _ word (i'm trying not even to say it anymore). So from the deepest part of my heart I thank you for all of your knowledge and wisdom. I truly can't wait to meet you.
You deserve all the blessings in the world and then some.
CAthy


You are the best!

You guys are the best!! Your right Cathy there are so many people that are only one pay check away from homeless. Most of America lives pay check to paycheck and it only takes one missed paycheck to make one missed mortgage payment.

Many tell me not to look back but keep moving forward however I NEVER want to forget where I came from. It helps me appreciate where I am. It also inspires me to reach back and grab the hands of others with the hope of helping them get out as well. I never want to be moving so fast that I neglect to look back Smiling

I know that I cannot help everyone... but I can sure try Smiling Which is why I post my success stories and why I have created http://realwholesaling.com. A place where others can go for mentoring and direction.

Thank you all for your kind word!

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Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

http://realwholesaling.com FREE wholesaling tips and resources!

To your success,
Carol Stinson


Carol,

I think I need to follow your example and remember to post not only successes (which, like you said, come so easy over time), but how scary it is in the beginning! I know the journals are for keeping track of growth for ourselves, but thanks for the reminder that others are reading and may not get to see the real person behind the post. You are a wonderful woman and you're right, it's only by God's grace that we are so blessed!

May God's blessings continue to pour out on you as you reach out to others!!

Rina

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"Obstacles can slow you down, but they can only stop you with your permission." Dean Graziosi (BARM pg 101)

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11

For a little about me, welcome to the site, and a few tips for new DG family members, click on this link: http://www.deangraziosi.com/user/3249


Thanks Rina

Rina,

You have been by my side since the beginning. You were the first friend that I had on DG and the first welcome on my profile page.

Thanks for every stone that you put under my feet during my journey. When i felt like I would stumble you would encourage me and with each word of encouragement it was like you put a large stone under each foot for me to step on.

You are the wonderful woman!!! Thank you Smiling

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Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

http://realwholesaling.com FREE wholesaling tips and resources!

To your success,
Carol Stinson