F.Y.I

F.Y.I

WHY I DIDN'T SIGN UP FOR COACHING? WELL I WOULD THINK YOU FROM ALL PEOPLE DEAN THAT FILLED WITH ATTITUDE OF GRACE AND CHARM AND LIKE TO HELP OTHER PEOPLE AND TRY TO BE HUMBLE WOULD TRAIN YOUR OWN STAFF OF PEOPLE THAT ARE RECRUITING STUDENTS FOR THE SUCCESS ACADEMY TO DO STUFF YOUR WAY. IT'S ONE THING BEING ASSERTIVE/PERSISTENCE OR AGGRESSIVE IN SALES BUT IT'S TOTALLY A DIFFERENT THING WHEN YOU ARE OFFENSIVE RUDE AND PATRONIZING- AND THOSE WORDS ARE NOT EVEN CLOSE TO DESCRIBE THE HUMILIATION I FELT TODAY WHEN CALLING ABOUT THE SUCCESS ACADEMY. YESTERDAY SOME GUY FROM DG RECRUITING GROUP TOOK ALL MY INFO AND PASSED IT ALONG TO A GUY NAME PAUL. PAUL HAD CALLED ME TODAY AND ASKED IF I HAVE 45 MIN FOR A CONVERSATION WITH HIM, HE SPOKE TO ME LIKE HE IS DOING ME A BIG FAVOR EVEN SPEAKING TO ME AND LIKE HE HAS NO TIME FOR ME (DESPITE THE 45 MIN HE JUST ASKED FROM ME) AND THAT IN THE END OF THE CONVERSATION I MUST DECIDE WHETHER I WANT TO JOIN THE PROGRAM OR NOT- I HAVE TO TAKE A DECISION YES OR NO- I CAN NOT THINK ABOUT IT OR CONSULT MORE WITH MY WIFE- WE/I MUST TAKE A DECISION WHETHER WE ARE JOINING OR NOT REGARDLESS TO A DIFFERENT AND HIGHER PRICE THAT BEEN SAID A DAY BEFORE, HE MADE IT VERY CLEAR THAT HE DIDN'T CALL ME TO LISTEN TO ME WHEN I WAS TRYING TO SAY THAT I WANT TO SEE WHAT ARE THEY EVEN OFFERING FOR THIS LARGE AMOUNT OF MONEY BEFORE I CAN GIVE HIM AN ANSWER. WHILE TRYING TO SAY THAT HE ALSO MADE IT VERY CLEAR THAT I CAN NOT THINK ABOUT IT NOT A WEEK NOT EVEN A DAY- THAT THEY DON'T WANT THOSE KIND OF PEOPLE THAT "CAN'T TAKE DECISION" AND ACT FAST- PUSHING ME TO CLOSE ON SOMETHING IN END OF THE CONVERSATION THAT I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT IT IS EXACTLY. TRYING VERY HARD TO PUSH ME TO GIVE HIM AN ANSWER- AND ME TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHAT ARE WE EVEN TALKING ABOUT- HE DIDN'T LIKE THE FACT THAT I WASN'T ON BOARD WITHOUT KNOWING THE WHOLE FACTS HE SAID "JUST BE QUIET AND LISTEN- I DIDN'T CALL YOU TO LISTEN TO YOU, BUT TO TELL YOU SOME STUFF" (WITH AN ATTITUDE)- I SAID EXCUSE ME?!?- AGAIN HE SAID BE QUIET AND LISTEN WITH A TON (I BLINKED MY EYES TWICE NOT BELIEVING TO WHAT I AM HEARING) TRYING TO GET A WORD OUT OF MY MOUTH- (THAT'S HOW'S CONVERSATION WORKS SOMEONE SAYS SOMETHING AND THE OTHER SIDE HAVE A SAYING ALSO USUALLY, NO?) AND THE GUY JUST SHUTS ME UP- I SAID I NEED SOME MORE INFO LIKE YOU PROBABLY NEED FROM ME-"I KNOW EVERYTHING THERE IS TO KNOW ABOUT YOU" SO JUST SHUT UP AND LISTEN!!! I DIDN'T CALL TO HEAR BUT TO BE HEARD BUT... (TRYING TO GET OUT A SENTENCE) ZIP IT!!!- HE SAID TO ME- THOSE WAS IS ACTUAL WORDS!!!, WHAAATT???- I SAID. ZIP IT!!!! YOU ARE ****ING ME OFF!!! HE SAID I'M GONNA HANG UP NOW IF YOU DON'T SHUT UP HE ADDED- HUMILIATED AND INSULTED AS I WAS I SAID I WANT TO HEAR WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY BUT YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE RUDE, JUST BE QUIET- HE SAID, THAT'S HOW THE CONVERSATION STARTED. THE ONLY REASON I DIDN'T HANG UP ON HIM OR SCOOP DOWN TO HIS LEVEL AND FOUGHT BACK WITH WORDS IS BECAUSE I WAS VERY EAGER ABOUT THIS PROGRAM BECAUSE I REALLY WANTED TO GO INTO REAL ESTATE- IN FACT I ACTUALLY MOVED FROM OVERSEAS WITH MY WIFE ESPECIALLY TO DO THIS SO I REALLY WANTED TO HEAR MORE ABOUT THE PROGRAM AND SINCE HE MENTIONED THAT HE IS THE GUY THAT YOU HAVE TO GO THROW TO GO INTO THE PROGRAM- HE ACTUALLY DECIDES IF YOU ARE QUALIFIED OR NOT- BECAUSE DEAN'S PAYING HIM A BUNCH LOADS OF MONEY TO DO SO- ACCORDING TO HIM.

I AM REALLY ASHAMED OF MYSELF FOR NOT HANGING UP ON HIM BUT I DID BARE WITH HIM SO I CAN GET ME INFO- AND AS MUCH AS I WANTED TO JOIN- I REALLY DID, I JUST COULDN'T GIVE HIM A POSITIVE ANSWER-SINCE THE COVERSATION LASTED AN HOUR I TOLD HIM I HAVE TO GO TO WORK AND I DID- THE WHOLE REST OF THE DAY I COULDN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT THE DEGRADING AND HUMILIATING WAY HE SPOKE TO ME. MY WIFE REALLY DIDN'T UNDERSTAND HOW I DIDN'T HANG UP ON HIM IN THE FIRST MIN BUT LIKE I SAID I JUST DIDN'T WANT TO MISS ON THAT- TOMORROW HE IS SUPPOSE TO CALL BACK FOR ME TO GIVE HIM AN ANSWER- IM NOT EVEN GONNA ANSWER THE PHONE- I DON'T FEEL I WANT TO PAY ANY PRICE NOT EVEN A PENNY TO THIS TUITION AFTER THE WAY I WAS TREATED, EVEN THOUGH I CAME TO THE STATES AFTER READING DEAN'S BOOKS INTENTION ALL ALONG TO GO INTO THE PROGRAM AND INVEST IN REAL ESTATE. I COME FROM A FAMILY WITH MONEY AND I AM SUPPOSE TO INVEST SOME FUNDS HERE AND I REALLY WANTED TO DO IT WITH THE PROGRAM BUT THERE'S SOME THINGS YOU JUST CANT PUT A PRICE ON THEM. I HOPE NO MORE PEOPLE WILL HAVE TO GO THROW WHAT I WENT THROW TODAY.

PAUL- IT IS SO SAD THAT GOD IS GIVING YOU MONEY SINCE YOU ARE ABUSING IT. YOU ARE ARROGANT AND CONDESCENDING AND YOU DONT DESERVE ANY MONEY OR SUCCESS BECAUSE YOU ARE ONLY 31 AND ALREADY YOU ARE TREATING PEOPLE WORSE THAN SLAVES WERE TREATED 200 YEARS AGO. MY FAMILY HAVE MORE MONEY THAN YOU'LL EVER HAVE AND I NEVER HEARD THEM SPEAK THAT WAY TO ANYONE.

DEAN- I THINK YOU SHOULD MONITOR MORE CLOSELY ON WHO IS REPRESNTING YOU. GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING.

MICHAEL

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